Coincidence

My sister went into labor 6 weeks before her son was due. The doctors tried to give her medication to delay his birth but were only successful for about 24 hours. A month later, my sister died in a head on collision. Was it coincidence that her son, who should not have been born for two weeks more was at that moment safe with his adoptive parents?

On this little boy's six month birthday, I was in a head on collision which totaled my car but left me unharmed. Am I crazy to think this was more than just a coincidence? That the day a boy who should not have been born reached the six month mark completely healthy and safe I should come face to face with the circumstance that killed his mother?

I cannot believe these events to be unrelated or insignificant. I cannot believe the universe to have so random a design. I cannot believe there is no message in this madness. I am certain there is a plan for this child. There is a reason he is alive today. There is a reason I am alive today.